Are You Masturbating Again?

Are you masturbating again?

Masturbation is a healthy part of life, however masturbating excessively is not! Once a day for fun rather than escape is fine. Masturbating to porn rather than using your imagination is not fine and is detrimental you mindset and sex life.

More often than not we either a) have a build up of what we think is sexual energy, we become sexually aroused and then act on this feeling or b) we use it as method of escape, from boredom, stress, triggers etc.

If we feel like we have a very high sex drive I would like you to consider that actually this sensation is spiritual (kundalini) energy which is trapped at the base of your spine (root chakra) and yes it is related to your hormones and high levels of testosterone. Spiritual energy is full of creativity, love and healing qualities and we often waste this energy by thinking that it is purely sexual. Often the most creative people have the highest sex drives and addictive tendencies.

If you find that you get the urge to masturbate because you are bored, lonely, stressed, triggered or trying to avoid emotions or situations then you are using this activity to escape. Escaping is never good as every time we chose to escape rather than to deal with issues we hinder our growth. Eventually we wont be able hide from whatever we are surpressing and it will manifest in physical or mental pain.

When we have been through trauma or a lot of stress in our lives we often function in our sympathetic nervous system which means we are on high alert. When we are operating in this part of our nervous system we have five ways to react which in essence are to protect us from threat. Our sympathetic nervous system is our fight or flight response. We may also freeze (dissociate) fawn (care for others) or fuck. The fuck option is our instinctual way to survive in the way of reproducing. Due the current global situation a lot of people maybe experiencing this high alert state of being at the moment.

When we are able to address our underlying issues we find the need to masturbate so frequently diminishes. I have seen the proof of this in myself and in my clients. You are then able to transform your sexual energy into spiritual energy which will benefit you in a magnitude of ways. Channelling your sexual energy will boost your immune system, increase creativity, fill you with unconditional love, increase energy levels and heighten your intuition.

We have an energetic body and physical one and within our energetic body we have seven main energy points which relate to a different parts of our body and emotions. When we masturbate we draw our energy up to our sacral chakra located just below our belly button. We then orgasm and loose our energy (men more so then women, hence men often rolling over and going straight to sleep after sex). The spiritual energy goes on a loop from root to sacral chakra but never gets chance to transform into this powerful spiritual energy by moving up through the remaining 5 energy points.

In sessions I teach my clients how to channel their sexual energy and help them understand and overcome their underlying issues. I also teach my clients techniques which they can use in their day to day life to overcome stress and heal themselves.

If you want to become your own remedy and stop masturbating so much drop me a message and book your free video consultation now!

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