BDSM does NOT Heal Trauma

I am starting to wake up to who I really am. To see my truth, my essence. I have never been a bad person, I coped with the darkness of my mind and life the best way I could with the tools I had at the time. None of us are bad people, we all have a spark of light inside of us which can be accessed at any time, unfortunately some of us loose sight of this light and it is dimmed by darkness. When we hide from our darkness it takes over. If we face our shadow parts head on we take away their power and our light becomes brighter.

Even when I hurt people as a dominatrix I wanted to help make them better. Yes it eased my sadistic itch but as much as they sometimes screamed in pain I thought it was helping them release their trauma and my own. Admittedly I was wrong. I can see that now, but it was part of mine and their journey. Now I can see the truth it’s my time to shed light on this darkness. You DON’T heal trauma through BDSM. Trying to heal trauma by sexualising it only keeps the person trapped in the cycle of abuse. It acts as a plaster, a temporary fix but the wound is merely being covered, it is not being treated. The wound continues to get worse as more dirt (trauma) gets in every time a new plaster (BDSM ACTIVITIES) is put on. As the wound becomes infected and grows in size a bigger plaster is needed until eventually the plaster does not fit and the infection spreads to the blood. Now the host is very sick and a plaster is not longer an option.

For thousands of years we have been under the impression that pain is a good way to deal with certain behaviours and that sacrifice is a way to please the Gods or another human being. The Aztecs held mass sacrifices, corporal punishment in schools, the whipping of slaves, genocide, aversion therapy, BDSM etc I could go on and on. Fear has been used to control individuals and the masses. This is depicted in the bible. God is painted as deity to be feared, one which punishes and who murders. These actions are not of GOD. These actions of the dark forces which are prevalent here on Earth. Every time we interact in activities which involves pain or fear we are feeding the darkness and making it stronger.

My mission is to shed light on these dark areas, to show that there is another way. We do not have to be a slave to this system. We can take power our back and free ourselves from this darkness which is consuming the world. Now is the time to open our hearts. We are surrounded by energy some of which is a very high frequency. When we attach our selves to this high frequency energy which is full of love, peace and healing the light will shine down on us and our transformation will being.

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