How did life come to this? A sexless marriage and addicted to porn…….

Are you bored of your life? Feeling empty? When was the last time you had sex with your wife? Is there any passion left when you do have sex or is it the same monotonous sex that you have been having for years? Do you prefer to watch porn rather than make love to your partner? Are you left unsatisfied?

If you are answering yes to any of these questions then something needs to change. Many men substitute sex for porn. Why is this? Did sex with your partner ever blow your mind or have you always felt unsatisfied. Did you used to have a good sex life and then things changed? After you had children or your partner went through menopause? Do you have insecurities around sex and find it easier to masturbate than to have a sex? Are you escaping life’s frustrations by watching porn and now you are hooked?

There are many reasons why men choose porn over sex but no matter what the reason, porn is damaging to you and will hinder you having a healthy sex life with your partner. Our views on sex, ourselves and women are distorted when we watch porn.

Years ago to access porn you would need to go to shop and buy a magazine, sometimes you would get a video. Now it is at our fingertips in a matter for seconds. All we need to do is look at our phones. We have instant gratification and no longer use our imaginations when masturbating. Porn is everywhere and we don’t even need to go to a porn site to access it. It is all over social media, sent to us by friends or saved on our phone or computer.

When we keep choosing porn over sex in a loving relationship we become desensitized to “normal” sex. If we are constantly masturbating over women who are twenty years younger than our wife or have had plastic surgery to distort their bodies to be something unnatural we begin to get used to these images over the natural form of a woman.

If you want to improve your sex life with your partner or make a change in your sexual behaviour drop me a message.

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